Being in love
Relationship Coaching
For every person a sense of being in love and being in a relationship is very unique.
There are so many things we are not aware of that may affect the dynamics of relationships: energy connections with other people, family expectations, unconscious conflicting believes and "programs". We act upon these programs because our brain is programmed to survive. Even though the context of the world around us may have changed and those survival mechanisms are no longer relevant.
There are so many things we are not aware of that may affect the dynamics of relationships: energy connections with other people, family expectations, unconscious conflicting believes and "programs". We act upon these programs because our brain is programmed to survive. Even though the context of the world around us may have changed and those survival mechanisms are no longer relevant.
Choices in life
As a result of the endless number of options that modern society has provided, we find it very difficult to choose at all. Although the choices around us are infinite, we always start with just one – ourselves. Unless we understand what drives us, what we need to keep our fears at bay, to keep us safe at night, to feel fulfilled and understood, to feel connected and important, and happy with our own self. Until this happens, we will never be satisfied with any relationship.
There are so many things we are not aware of, that are not easy to solve on our own that may affect the dynamics of a relationship.
How Relationship Coaching can help you?
You have come to the right place.
I will help you figure out what is happening in your situation, to understand yourself and find a way forward.
Please take your time to explore this page and feel if this is the right place for you. If yes, please leave a request at the bottom of the page and I will contact you within a day. And then you can determine the format of work convenient for you: live session or on Skype.
Are you looking for your ideal partner?
Are you in a relationship that is no longer working and you are looking for ways to improve it or for the way out?
Are you in a relationship that is no longer working and you are looking for ways to improve it or for the way out?
In my work any topic is considered as if in 3D format.
A person is like a multi-level structure that has a body, a soul, an ancestral memory, a system of culture, an emotional state, and a connection with something greater...
We will find the key level, have a look at the cause of the issue and release the emotional charges, and assist a client to access empowering resources that will help them to withstand the tasks ahead.
Instruments that I am using:
A person is like a multi-level structure that has a body, a soul, an ancestral memory, a system of culture, an emotional state, and a connection with something greater...
We will find the key level, have a look at the cause of the issue and release the emotional charges, and assist a client to access empowering resources that will help them to withstand the tasks ahead.
Instruments that I am using:
About the method
Language
What role do words play?
Words are the language of a conscious person who helps to share information. Sometimes, in dealing with people, you have to mask real emotions. This is a way for our unconscious to protect us.
Psychology has its own language - the language of images, emotions and movements. Sometimes, we use metaphorical cards to dig deeper.
Words are the language of a conscious person who helps to share information. Sometimes, in dealing with people, you have to mask real emotions. This is a way for our unconscious to protect us.
Psychology has its own language - the language of images, emotions and movements. Sometimes, we use metaphorical cards to dig deeper.
Measurement of emotions and feelings
We are taught to think, we are not taught to feel. Through emotions and feelings therapist and a client are tracking the changes that occur during work. At the end of the work feelings change. The aim of therapy is to return a client a feeling, a sense of power over their life. When you feel that you have a power over your life - you are ready to whatever is ahead.
Muscle test
What is a muscle test?
Kinesiology is an applied science that deals with diagnostics and therapy due to changes in muscle tone. The muscle test gives us feedback and shows what is changing. It happens like this: ask a question - and get an answer from the arm muscles. On the affirmative answer - the muscle is strained, on the negative - the muscle is weakened. The kinesiological test addresses our unconscious beliefs and values. We, as if in a conversation with the human psyche: the muscle responds to any words. What strains me - reduces muscle tone. What gives pleasure - increases muscle tone.
Kinesiology is an applied science that deals with diagnostics and therapy due to changes in muscle tone. The muscle test gives us feedback and shows what is changing. It happens like this: ask a question - and get an answer from the arm muscles. On the affirmative answer - the muscle is strained, on the negative - the muscle is weakened. The kinesiological test addresses our unconscious beliefs and values. We, as if in a conversation with the human psyche: the muscle responds to any words. What strains me - reduces muscle tone. What gives pleasure - increases muscle tone.
Metaphoric associative cards "OH"
A card is a metaphor that gently takes us to an unconscious level. Why metaphoric? Because any picture can be viewed as a visual metaphor, like a door opening into a person's inner world. Choosing a card, considering it, a person actually talks about herself, about what is important to her. And here you can work with any questions that arise: in the areas of personal life, relationship with yourself, with your partner, career or business.
Why Relationship Coaching?
© Who is your ideal partner?
© Who should you become to meet this ideal partner?
What are the deepest desires that lie underneath your expectations?
Being clear in every sense on what kind of person you are and what you are looking for in your partner creates a powerful intention for the universe to conspire in your favour.
When we stop expecting and demanding the things from ourselves and our partner that are not realistic, there is a space of gratitude created that shifts the balance of relationship to a new level.
© Who should you become to meet this ideal partner?
What are the deepest desires that lie underneath your expectations?
Being clear in every sense on what kind of person you are and what you are looking for in your partner creates a powerful intention for the universe to conspire in your favour.
When we stop expecting and demanding the things from ourselves and our partner that are not realistic, there is a space of gratitude created that shifts the balance of relationship to a new level.
How to communicate your needs in the same language?
The way we communicate our needs is the way we usually like to take care of other people. For us it is the way we experience and express our love. Learning about your love language and your partner's love language may be a very simple but a very effective way to balance your relationship.
How to maintain a healthy balance?
Behind every emotion there is a need, and we feel and realise this need due to an emotion. If the need goes unanswered, it will show up in frustration, negativity and even sickness.
Recognising and managing your own feelings and emotions, being empathic to your partner's feelings – these all are important parts in your emotional health. Bringing awareness to your real needs and desires and shredding away what is not yours is essential in achieving harmony in the relationship.
The way we communicate our needs is the way we usually like to take care of other people. For us it is the way we experience and express our love. Learning about your love language and your partner's love language may be a very simple but a very effective way to balance your relationship.
How to maintain a healthy balance?
Behind every emotion there is a need, and we feel and realise this need due to an emotion. If the need goes unanswered, it will show up in frustration, negativity and even sickness.
Recognising and managing your own feelings and emotions, being empathic to your partner's feelings – these all are important parts in your emotional health. Bringing awareness to your real needs and desires and shredding away what is not yours is essential in achieving harmony in the relationship.
I believe that no relationship is coincidental. Even in a chance meeting, even in a one night stand, there is a deeper connection with this person that brings us together. Love is a universal attractor. If we find a reason deep enough and important enough to stay in relationship - it will become gold.
Sometimes in a relationship comes the point when the pain is so strong, the tension is so exhausting, you feel there is no hope or reason to keep going any more. This negativity hasn't been created overnight; it took some time to compound it like a snow ball. If there are things in your relationship you are not happy with - deal with that straight away. Do not let it drag for years. This is the time of your life you may use productively doing something great.
* There are only two motivations in life: to get away from the pain and to achieve pleasure. Unfortunately the "pain" motivator is the better working one. However people wait till pain become unbearable to make any changes. But then breaking through the pain may give you courage to move to the place where you would like to be.
* Everything in life comes at a cost. There is a cost to stay and a cost to go. A cost to stay the same way, do the same things, feel the same, and a cost to make changes, see the things differently, feel differently. What would you like to do and how you would like to feel is your decision, always. We are here to help you to guide you through the process to get where you would want to be.
* Everything in life comes at a cost. There is a cost to stay and a cost to go. A cost to stay the same way, do the same things, feel the same, and a cost to make changes, see the things differently, feel differently. What would you like to do and how you would like to feel is your decision, always. We are here to help you to guide you through the process to get where you would want to be.
* Sometimes you may feel hopeless and helpless to make things work. Then our job as a coach is not to do the things for you, but to see what is blocking your energy and help you to find inner strength to shift things over so you would feel empowered to be in control over your life.
* Sometimes this is just a matter of "tipping point". You already know what to do internally, you may have already made a decision and need a bit of a "push" or to see things in a different prospective to make changes. At this time it's a good idea to have someone who cares and appreciates what you are going through to be by your side.
* Sometimes this is just a matter of "tipping point". You already know what to do internally, you may have already made a decision and need a bit of a "push" or to see things in a different prospective to make changes. At this time it's a good idea to have someone who cares and appreciates what you are going through to be by your side.
The First Step after work
As a result a client leaves with the feeling of having options, new resources and an empowering state. The first step after the work is to notice the changes. Even a slight change in any part of the system will affect the whole system. The changes may happen over the period of the next weeks or maybe a couple of months after the session. Trust your soul to take in as much and as quickly as it needs.
How many sessions will you need?
Consultation lasts from 60 to 90 minutes. There are issues that can be solved in one meeting. There are questions that may require more time and can be resolved in several meetings. We will discuss your options. You are an expert in your life to choose the mode that suits you.
